[HAPPIER] “I’m happy someone else could make you happier”
This level of acceptance is beautiful on a whole other level. It’s safe. We may want to be the ONE but, reality is you’re not only meant for one single individual. We all serve our purpose.
Stop feeling hopeless, telling yourself lies about not being enough or like you’ve lost.
They get to choose if they want to allow you to make them happy. So really, it ain’t even about you, and your “lack of” or “inability”
It’s about purpose & reason.
Accept what happens [for you].
I get into situations that scare the shit out of me and then don't know what to do with myself. Do I lie and pretend it's all gonna be okay before it inevitably destroys me? Or do I just get out now?
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I hear it’s everything in letting go and moving on.
I don’t know how much more we could have.
But I do know I am neither ready to let go, nor to move on.
Everyone I reach out to, and since you started peppering our chat with all the finality, I’ve made it a point to share the reality more widely. But everyone says the same.
It just takes time.
I think I’d been in denial.
If I didn’t say it out loud it wasn’t real.
It could be undone.
No one needed to know because it was just a bump in the road.
I see now it’s not.
This is the new us.
And it’s breaking my heart anew.
I slept a lot today. I started listening to my poor aching body rather than fighting it.
Which is fine but fighting the pain was quite possibly the only thing keeping me strong. The only thing getting me out of bed.... #day17#letterstoyou#breakup
You shouldn’t think or worry about what other people think about you. People can judge you based on what they have experienced. Their experience can never be same as yours. Don’t hold on to the opinions of others, it will pull you down and stop you from exploring what you want to explore. Let the life within you flourish and seek what it wants to seek.