💯GOD SAID THERE IS MORE!! HE HAS GREATER!! BIGGER!! BETTER!!! IN STORE FOR YOU SIS!! DON'T SETTLE WHEN GOD HAS THE BEST PLANNED FOR YOU!!💯
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WHY ARE WOUND MATE CONNECTIONS SO HARD TO DETACH FROM?
This has been coming up a lot this week in my calls.
I am going to give you the Jamie Rea oversimplification (cause there will be other things I’m not speaking about in this post), which is what came through me on one of my calls.
It’s like you’re addicted to crack and you don’t know how to stop doing crack (yes this is how I talk on calls sometimes).
On a logical level, you know crack is bad for you but you can’t stop doing crack.
You know you shouldn’t be doing it but it makes you feel good temporarily and temporary pain relief is what you’re after.
Just as a wound mate connection, it satisfies this temporary feeling of validation and approval but leads to long-term stress, anxiety and feelings of unworthiness.
You may even stop doing crack, you delete your crack dealer’s number, but one way or another, crack ends up coming back into your life.
You wish you could stop doing crack but it’s really hard to stop doing crack.
You beat yourself up over it, experience shame you can’t quit, but it’s really hard to stop doing crack.
The thing about a wound mate connection, it feeds off your self-rejection.
It only functions ONE WAY: on account that you self-reject.
It lives in the dysfunctional ping pong match between their self-betrayal and your self-betrayal and you call it love.
It’s not love, it’s two people avoiding pain and using each other.
It’s two people doing crack together, getting high on the drug of wound amplification and saying they’re meant for each other.
What would happen if you stopped doing crack?
Would they love and accept you for not doing crack?
Would they be proud of you for giving up crack?
Or would they try and get you to start doing crack with them again?
Would they try to pry you off the straight and narrow and bring you down into the gutter with them?
Do they amplify your wholeness or do they try and destabilize your self-empowerment?
Do they see your strength to choose yourself as an attack on them or an act of love to yourself?
You’re only attracted to them when you don’t feel good about yourself.
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I pray this truth blesses and comforts you today 🤴👸💍❤️🎀 Please follow ➡️ @godlygang101 for more inspiration .
Happy Weekend! What do you think: Is online dating awesome and so worth it, or a pain in the butt and not really work?
I was recently talking to a follower who did online dating and he said that it was sometimes a little rough because women would get clingy, have crazy expectations, still expect the guy to pay for everything etc. .
However, I also know quite a few people who have gotten married from online dating and this follower, I believe is actually dating someone he met online dating, so his conclusion was that it was worth it despite all the other stuff.
Having never online dated myself, how do you all feel about it?
New Vlog - what girls wants boys to do more of’ (link in bio) ..........
QOTD: tell us girls - what do you want guys to do more of?
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When God is the creator of all things, we will never run out. We must go into everything believing that there's plenty for us all; an endless supply. This mentality that there's too many people doing it, is how the devil convinces people not to go for what theirs, remain in the same financial rut, or become super competitive instead of supporting each other. Once you start doing things to compete, you've already lost. God will always bless the one willing to help others over the one that is trying to hoard everything, because they want to be one making the most. Yes, there are people who are like this that do find success, but it doesn't last. In order for God to trust you with His wealth, He must first know that He can get those blessings through you, before He sends them to you. .
Change the way you think. From now on, remind yourself daily that God is the creator of all things, therefore He will supply all of your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. You don't have to convince people to spend money with you, God will send them your way because He knows you will not only push them to desire more for themselves, but you will treat them fairly, respectfully and with the kind of love that will show that His spirit dwells in you, and get Him all of the glory He desires. Don't cop out! God got that unlimited supply for the low low.
People curse those who hoard their grain, but they bless the one who sells in time of need.
And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.
If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he's already made up his mind that it's over. Then there's only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can't convince him. You can't beg. You can't make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible.
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TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance.
When was the last time you went on a holiday that was purely focused on you relaxing? When was the last time you took some YOU time and did something to calm your CNS down? I talk about the importance of down time a lot and it’s because we all need to reset ourselves and get back to a place of calm
Life is busy. Work gets demanding. You know the rest. So, when was the last time you took YOU time?
Throwing back to sipping margaritas in the sun with some of my faves in Bali a few weeks back [take me back, yeah?] 🍹☀️
That’s right!!! 🙌 I was in the early stages of dating The Mindset Coach when we had some triggers and misunderstandings come up. We turned it around within 24 hours both times. He said he didn’t want it to go sideways. What he said and did literally made me see him in a different light, I really started to like him at this point! He left his ego out of it and legit wanted to make the effort. He apologized, gave me time to process my trigger and come back to him when I was more calm. I explained it was a trigger and apologized back. Misunderstanding resolved.
And vice versa, I handled our 2nd misunderstanding with gentleness which showed him I could be reasonable and caring during conflict. His feelings for me got stronger because of it. :) Now...this was very early on, within six weeks of dating. The trick is to keep going with this approach. Keep showing appreciation for each other, leave your ego out of it and work it out. It will absolutely make you stronger as individuals and together. 💪
There’s a quote somewhere that talks about how we will always be triggered in relationships. We’re smart. We have the ability to navigate through conflict IF we choose to. Don’t let your triggers run the show. Work with your triggers to learn and evolve.
Reposted from @keishornescott (@get_regrann) - —Please understand that there's a difference between someone who has narcissistic traits and narcissistic disorder. The traits can change if they go to therapy and seek professional help. But the disorder typically doesn't. They ruin people very badly!
You should not wait for a narcissist to change or try to change them. You will die before you do! Real change will only happen through therapy, professional help, and their own willingness to want to change what they recognize to be a negative behavior towards others. Can they change? I believe a very small percentage can. Very small because most, a lot, think nothing’s wrong with them. To them, they’re normal and everyone else is the problem. But God can work miracles. I stand on that. But you should never try to change them or their disorder. NEVER! It won’t happen. TAG your friends too and let’s hear their thoughts as well. 🤔 💭 #narcissist#narcissisticabuse#narcissists#narcissism#relationships#dating#theshaderoom#spirtualword#heartbreakquotes#advice#datingadvice#Keishornescott - #regrann
When you start an online business👩💻, it sounds like you will be at the beach working on your laptop all day long but, that’s far from the truth.⠀
I’m actually mostly at home on my evenings and weekends working on my videos and other content to get it published by the due date. It’s a lot of juggling, let me tell ya! 🤹♀️ So on that note, I’ve decided to hire a VA (virtual Assistant) to work with me and help me create my vision.⠀
I want to pass on the tasks that I suck at and only keep the stuff that gets me fired up🔥 every day.⠀
I want to focus on the things that matter most to me and that is to create a loving community of women who are not only looking for love but are also seeking personal growth.⠀
And if you are one of these beautiful women, DM me 💌 and let me know. I want to start a private Facebook group in the New Year so we can sit down and chat about love, the beauty of finding love and the struggles that we face finding true love. ⠀
Does that sound like something you would be interested in doing with me? 💋⠀
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As guys, sometimes we hesitate to start a conversation with a woman out of fear of coming off as a creeper.
I get it and that actually shows that you're a great guy that doesn't want women to feel uncomfortable.
So here's pro-tip to help you not come off as creepy and instead warm and personable.
Also, if you've been having trouble with your interactions with women and want some help, just click the link in my bio @pablo.j.rosario for a free session. I'd be happy to help anyway I can.
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You, me & a cup of tea. 🍵💌 Starting today we are now accepting dedications. If you love someone, show them. DM us your love letters and we’ll tag your love one. @love.is.vintage 📸 Joanna Kosinska 📍 United Kingdom
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WHY YOU KEEP ENDING UP WITH AN INCOMPATIBLE PARTNER
On my Instagram stories the last few days, we have been discussing what we feel a potential partner needs to know about us upfront. Hand-in-hand with that are deal breakers. Deal breakers are things YOU need to know about your potential partner upfront. Your deal breakers are important to know as you are dating and seeking a long term partner. For example, maybe you absolutely don’t want kids. If you find out a potential partner has kids or wants kids, that may be a deal breaker for you. A good practice I like to do is keep a list in my phone of my deal breakers or questions to make sure to ask that would prompt the other person to disclose whether they fall in the “ABSOLUTELY NOT” category. That way, if I’m going on dates with someone, I know exactly what to ask to avoid waisting anybody’s time. It doesn’t have to be a long list, a lot of discrepancies can be worked out. But keeping a list of 3-5 “ABSOLUTELY NOT’S” helps you make sure you’re picking a more compatible partner and nurturing healthy connections. That being said, not everybody’s deal breakers are alike. So, what are your deal breakers?
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That someone who will quietly hug you for twenty minutes straight while you figure it all out. 😊💌 @love.is.vintage for so much more. 🍵
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Consuming tea can help reduce joint inflammation due to the presence of polyphenols. 😘 @love.is.vintage for more tea facts and romance notes. 📸 Joanna Kosinska 📍United Kingdom
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Acceptance of the beautiful and the flawed. 😊♥️ That’s how it should always be. 💌 @love.is.vintage for more love.
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All you need is love and some good tea. 📸 John Mark Smith 📍Ukraine
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Because you shouldn’t have to settle for anything less. 😊💌 Follow @love.is.vintage for so much more.
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I’ve helped 1000’s of women over the year rekindle love with the right person, and move the F on from the wrong person (for good). There’s a fine line between the two, which is why I created a program that does BOTH in one program. If this is what you need right now, I urge you to try it. Check it out at GettingUsBack.com. (link in bio)
Nothing is more attractive than peace of mind.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we’re going through difficult times, though, it’s often the first thing we lose. Peace is replaced with fear.. Anxiety.. Hopelessness.. and we have no idea how to get it back.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But - we can.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If we choose to take the right steps, like choosing good decisions over bad ones, like searching within ourselves instead of in a bottle of wine, like focussing on what we have instead of what we don’t, we can find the peace we’re missing - the peace that turns our partners on, the peace that attracts people to us - that attracts us to us.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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❗TYPE Yes if you feel me.❗
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⚠️PRAYER FIRST SIS!⚠️
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🤷🏾♀️IS THIS TOO MUCH TO ASK? 😂 Lord do it for me in this season! Type Yes if you feel me sis!