Today marks 10 years of dating this man. 😍 As per our motto, we're never going to stop dating. ❤️
1 1313 October, 2019
With the pressure of trying to act natural while hoping he or she laughs at your jokes, first dates are similar to a prolonged interview (but with darker lipstick and lighter conversation). Even though first dates can be nerve-wracking, they’re also a wonderful reminder of the different people in the world and the potential you may have with one of them. In order to remain calm and show how great we all know you already are, here are five ways to feel confident when you go on a first date ⚡️⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
1. Stay open minded⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
2. Prepare for the conversation⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
3. Be yourself- without overthinking it⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
4. Don’t take what happens personally⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
5. Remember your date is also human
1 013 October, 2019
Femoiselles, if you have to give a man an ultimatum, sis let him go! He doesn’t want to do whatever it is you are requesting, so don’t waste your time. Men that really want to do for you don’t need to be reminded and given threats, they just do it. Men know whether they want to marry you or not early on. A man will let you spend 5 years of life with him, and still knows he doesn’t want to marry you. In this video, posted by The Shaderoom from the show Black Ink Crew, Donna is giving Alex an ultimatum about marriage. Ladies, if you do things like Donna, paying for a man and acing like a married couple, he really has no reason to marry you. Like the old say, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”!She has allowed her self to be used and become a “Pick-Me” and a “Bob the Builder Chick”! Alex was hurt and she helped get him back on track! Now he doesn’t understand her or want to give her what she’s asking for or needs. This is how it usually goes if you put yourself in that position. Like Donna, she has a personal time period for marriage, two years. Femoiselles, don’t share your personal marriage timeline with him, don’t explain it to him! If he isn’t discussing it with you or making plans in that direction, be gone and stay gone! Femoiselles never allow yourself to build a man for the next woman! 💅🏽-Femoiselle
9 5513 October, 2019
Love yourself enough to realize that you should not be put in danger or harms way by anyone. Including yourself. I am working on an amazing self love course that will absolutely change lives.
I need you to take a moment and do 2 things. * Click on my bio and turn on post notifications so you don't miss the class when it starts. It will be 15 people per class and it will go fast* *Let me know in the comments what kinds of questions you have about self love*
The cycle ends with me and you.
It’s not easy to date a Taurus i know. But hear me good, the way we love is on a level no other possesses. We love you to the marrow within your bones. Nothing about the implementation of pouring into you repeatedly is ever done in vain. We are INTENTIONAL lovers. We will not only love you to death but will find you in the next life and do it all over again if we have to. But balance is 🔑 and realistically we fuck up as humans and try to narrate what happened, vs accepting that what organically happens whether it hurts or heals was meant to anyway. You can be as fine as you wanna be? You still gone play your part in loving someone accurately or hurting them purposefully. 🙏🏾
2 1213 October, 2019
2 1813 October, 2019
@kaycola says “I love you i hope you heal” and it resonates like a mf! Ignoring what’s broken creates the desire to return to it over n over n over again. Fellas do like I’m doin, pride aside and get in somebody’s chair and release that trauma that has served its purpose already. And let that 💩 GO! 🙏🏾
It is easier said than done. However any man who has ever made the mistake of putting his woman before everything else knows this comes with consequences. As David Deida says “she can be the most important person in your life but she shouldn’t be the most important THING in your life.” On some level your woman has to feel that your life is bigger than just her. This is true masculine energy. This is something she can respect and trust because she knows your soul has a purpose beyond just your relationship. She has to know that if anything were to happen you would keep on keeping on because you don’t rely on your relationship to fulfill your life’s mission. She may not tell you this, she may even intellectually disagree with this. But the feminine energy deep down wants to feel your strength of centeredness and this is true masculine energy.⠀
0 313 October, 2019
You really have no reason to complain about available singles. There is no shrinking pool of single people.
Habit and consistency are truly the keys to success. Small, incremental, progress is the name of the game.
6 19113 October, 2019
Oh hi there👋🏻! I have some new Mindful Babes following me and I want to introduce myself.
My name is Valerie Adams and I am absolutely obsessed with manifestation, transformation, and discovering tools to help you live your best life.
A couple years ago I found myself completely lost & drifting through life. I was drinking every weekend, constantly exercising, shopping, wasting hours on Netflix and social media, restricting my eating, and feeling more alone than ever.
I had my breakthrough “enough is enough” moment after a night of drinking and realized that the path I had been on for so long wasn’t working.
My biggest pain was being single for over 3 years💔. I went on countless dates, got excited and then was quickly disappointed by men, felt alone, and didn’t believe love was possible for me.
I hired a love coach and completely re-wrote my dating story and gave my dating mindset a major makeover. Soon after, I manifested my dream partner @ryanclarkin💑. After investing over $30k in my personal development (coaches, courses, trainings, seminars), I now teach women how to attract their dream relationship by being their authentic selves.
✨You can have anything you desire in this lifetime
✨If you can see it in your mind, it can happen in reality
✨You language creates your life
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I’ve completely redesigned my life from anxious to mindful & am constantly learning daily.
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I used to hear this all the time when I was single. ⠀
“Maybe you intimidate guys!”⠀
What was I supposed to say to that?⠀
What was I supposed to do?⠀
Try to “dumb it down” to become more attractive?⠀
It was another one of those comments for which I didn’t have an answer.⠀
And I know you hear it, too.⠀
Of course, it may come at you worded differently...⠀
“Maybe you should tone it down a notch.”⠀
“You’re so independent! Guys need to feel needed.”⠀
Interestingly, when I met Dan, he wasn’t intimated, didn’t want me to tone anything down, and loved my independence.⠀
He fell in love with me exactly as I am and loved all those traits others told me might be keeping me single.⠀
And the same will happen for you when you meet your person!⠀
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If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀
TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance⠀
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1 713 October, 2019
I started living the life I prayed and prepared for instead of being scared to live. Stop waiting to live when God created you to be full of life💞💞
Not all of our Success Stories are about couples - we also like to celebrate those who are having fun meeting new people and falling in love with dating. Like wedding photographer, Mona, who was “curious, terrified and optimistic, all in equal measure” to start online dating. She signed up after a couple of her friends met partners through Soulmates, and she's looking forward to seeing where it goes. So we say go for it👏
Oh boy. I know I'm gonna hear an uproar about this. And you are right. We've all met men that are playing games while dating. 🙄
On the other hand, when my clients learn how to communicate their needs and desires openly, they start meeting these serious guys who are interested in serious relationships. 🥰
Do you think it's possible that our wishy-washy communication style about our needs and desires comes across as playing games to the guys, and then they are afraid to let go, but instead they resort to "playing games?" Could it be that they don't think that they are playing games, but instead they perceive you as the one who's playing games? 🤓
Company for life- If you do find the right person with common interest as yours, you got a mini me with you everywhere to share all your experiences as you live them.
You dont need to take a picture the person with you shares and will remember the experience with you, its like a story book you will read from your mind when you grow old together. literally share your life #idealmatcher
1 713 October, 2019
Sometimes all that is needed to instantly change our success in a given area (such as dating and women) is a shift in our perception.
It’s not necessarily that we need to do more things or newer things all the time. Instead we may just be better off changing our outlook. Maybe she is just really busy instead of thinking that she is not interested in you. Maybe she said no because of her mood and state at the time and not because you are unworthy. Maybe she doesn’t want to reveal how she feels because she is fearful and defensive and not because she isn’t interested in you.
Changing your perceptions will change your actions, which will then change your results.
1 1913 October, 2019
Heal as much as you can. Love on yourself and then love others..❤️
If someone really wants you then they will make room for you. You don't have to fight for a spot. Someone will see you beyond your flaws. Someone who will find you extremely pretty even when you have messy hair and you didn't get time for makeup. Someone who will see you as real you. Do you want something just like that? #inspirationbykumar
I am cool with my own life, I am going my life for a self-realization in my past, already gone for a long time
Recently, I think it's the lltime that I become totally self-realization
And I would say, I don't know did I achieve it, but, in one word
I don't care, I just enjoy the process
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2 413 October, 2019
Just like how you treat different ingredients in kitchen
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