So many stories, so little time. They’re all around us. We have this one glorious life and endless narratives we can live into as we move through each season. In this series, I invite you to begin to notice. Notice the internal conversations you find yourself in. Notice what they generate internally, in your body, in your mood, in your attitude.
I read a quote from Deepak Chopra MD a few weeks ago: “Every cell in your body is eavesdropping on your thoughts.” What are the physical manifestations of your story? Where do you notice it in your body? What do you see in the context of your relationships? Every story produces an outcome. If the outcome isn’t serving your vision, perhaps it’s time to pick up a new story.
Bad days simply do not exist 😌
It’s just your mindset, what you choose to believe is true...and I choose to have a good day every damn day 💃🏻 so whether today is a good or bad one, that’s up to you
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Your greatest opportunity is on the other side of that thing you fear the most.
Why am I successful today? Because I was unsuccessful for most of my life leading up to this.... I had a great chat with Hala Taha on the YAP - Young and Profiting podcast at LinkedIn Global in NJ last month about pain, growth and relating life to a video game.
When I look at my past life...it was almost as if I was stuck on the same level in a video game for years.
And that’s what taught me the greatest lesson on how to be myself after living so long not like myself.
When you’re playing a video game and you keep losing....do you quit? Do you rage at the game or do you come back with a new perspective and a better strategy?
Life is a video game. Sometimes you just gotta spam A + B + A + B + A + B until it works or completely switch up your approach.
One thing is for sure, you are always growing. “A bad day for the ego is a great day for the soul.” Check out the podcast link in the comments and let me know below how you deal with pain 👇
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I had the incredible honor to share my story today at @mastercard’s Live A Legacy event for young women. This special day was co-created with my new friends at @wotgreece, who are making incredible efforts to empower women here (and at whose conference I’m speaking next week). @sammyiannolo and I got to meet @officialtamta, the winner of Super Idol Greece — and 81yo windsurfer Anastasia Gerolymatou. Yes, you read that correctly. 💪🏻🏄🏼♀️ #startsomethingpriceless
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Most interactions in this transitory world are fleeting, cosmetic & superficial.
You will immediately cut through clutter if you can be present in the moment a 100%. Your credibility and impact are less about what you say and the duration of the interaction but more about how you say it and how much care and concern you display even in a short duration.
Be present be mindful.
Shout out to my friend and fellow entrepreneur, John R. DiJulius III, who just published a “must-read” book on my favorite topic RELATIONSHIPS!
I was fortunate to meet John a few years back through a mutual friend and shortly thereafter was asked to speak at his monster event called The Customer Service Revolution.
It was a tremendous experience and he proved to me first hand, that focusing on the client relationship wins every time.
I have yet to be treated better at a speaking event.
The book arrived in my mailbox this week, and while I was excited to receive it, little did I know, he shared one my rules, Tell Me Something Good. "Thank you for giving me great content. I mention you in every speech I do!" - John R. Di Julius III
It’s the ultimate compliment and I am very grateful to be included with such a forward-thinking thought leader.
The Relationship Economy is chock full of nuggets on how to deepen and manage all your relationships, especially in light of the Digital Age, and I urge you to grab a copy and find out for yourself.
WIE IST DAS BEI DIR?🤔 Geht bei dir das Licht 💡 an..
• wenn Du den Raum betrittst? 🔥☝️
• wenn Du den Raum verlässt? 🤦♂️👎 Das sind zwei Große Unterschiede. Menschen sieht man an, wie selbstbewusst sie sind. Du kennst sicherlich auch die Menschen, die einen Raum betreten und nach Ausstrahlung förmlich schreien. Du kennst aber auch die Menschen die in einem Raum sind, es aber niemand mitbekommt.
ALLES ENTSCHEIDEND IST DEIN SELBSTWERT, SELBSTBEWUSSTSEIN UND SELBSTVERTRAUEN.
Das ist erlernbar durch die Entwicklung deiner Persönlichkeit. Die Grundlage dafür ist immer deine innere Einstellung.
Viele Menschen sind getrieben. Vom Alltag, von anderen Menschen und von ihren eigenen Glaubenssätzen. Was davon am schlimmsten ist, bleibt dabei die Frage. Fangen wir beim Alltag an. Heute erst hörte ich von einem Rednerkollegen, dass wir in unserer aktuellen Zeit in einem Tag das erleben, was wir vor Jahren noch in sieben Jahren erlebt haben. Daher wundert mich nichts mehr, dass wir weder Zeit, noch Nerven haben. Schauen wir auf andere Menschen. Wir sind getrieben von der Fassade anderer Menschen. Wir wollen genau toll sein, wie die Anderen. Schauen Sie in Zukunft bitte etwas genauer hin. Dann werden Sie feststellen, dass so viel Lug, Betrug und Schaumschlägerei dabei ist. Die Packung ist Hui und die Realität Pfui. Und least but not least – getrieben von uns selbst und unseren Glaubenssätzen. Sätze wie „ich bin nicht (gut) genug“. Es muss immer mehr sein. Schneller, höher und weiter…um meist anderen zu gefallen. Nur gefallen Sie sich selbst überhaupt?
Den ganzen Artikel findest Du auf meiner Homepage im Blog. 👇
When it comes to my business, I can’t get enough of working with women who have a dream and watching their faces light up when they realize that dream is actually achievable.
There’s nothing quite like a woman on a mission. It is truly amazing to be apart of their journey!
But I won’t lie—I do not love office tasks at all. That is why I have a Virtual Assistant to help me with a lot of the tasks that don’t light me up, so I have more time to do what I love, which is helping women to grow thriving businesses!
By outsourcing some of my daily tasks, I can focus on what I love most and be more available to YOU.
Questions? Fire away!
Any VA’s out there? Comment below with your info incase anyone else is needing a VA! Best decision I ever made!
Heute habe ich beim Fernsehsender Hamburg1 einen Impulsvortrag gehalten zum Thema Erfolgsfaktor Nr. 1 – positive Unternehmenskultur.
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Its often said that everything is easier with teamwork. NOOOO. 🙄
Its easier when (a) The Team works 😍and most important (b) It is the Right Team😍.
People will doubt question and attack you. What you stand for? What you say and do?
Never Doubt YourSelf.
Find the answer to (b) above.
I HAVE 🙏💜. Vroom Vroom. #Zestforlife
Time does not define you.
Past refines you.
Find (b) and go to work. Sometimes you carry less or more of the weight. The responsibility. The challenge. That's fine.
When the team wins You Win.
Thank You #TheMasterTeam
The YKJ Principle in action
The Future is brighter than ORANGE!!! 😎
Der Weg ist das Spiel. Wer spielt, gewinnt Kunden, neue Einsichten und mehr.
In den letzten 5 Jahren hat sich das Kundenverhalten massiv verändert. Daher kommt dem Verkäufer heute eine neue Rolle zu. Die Digitalisierung verändert den Verkauf – und zwar gewaltig.
Der neue Kunde tickt anders als die Kunden früher. Für ihn muss die Beratung und der persönliche Verkauf neu kreiert werden. Doch wie geht der Verkäufer mit dieser neuen Situation um?
There is so much trouble in this pic it’s not even worth trying with mere words. Let’s hear it for my new fall hair cut and for men who arrive three hours late for “a drink” on rollerblades and invade your bar! Hurry back soon Richard! My kind of man 💜
May I make your day a little more gay? It’s better that way, I simply must say. And if not today then when else to be gay? For gay once meant happy, so be gay, ok?
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That rain yesterday. Felt like London. My fave city. My top London tips: thegayguidenetwork.com (all welcome; no xxx) 💜
1 1417 October, 2019
Champagne and nibbly things and stories and catching up and sharing dreams and Tulum tips and toasting - oh and the psychic who stopped me outside! - all done here, last evening, with co-manifestors Sonja and Kelly, Otto and Ella; in their closed art gallery space. I really love them both. Feel free to tag a friend you love a lot today so they know, too 💜
11 1317 October, 2019
It is ALL an inside job. That car you covet,the mate, the smaller hips, the bigger biceps, the newer house, that next kid, the raise... none of it will make you feel happier forever more. They’ll make you temporarily high, but wherever you go there you are and so unless you feel authentically happy before you get them, happy even without them, you will never feel happy because of them, because their novelty and shine wear away, and you are left feeling - how? #ThoughtRevolution with a hat tip to birthday girl Eva, with love and respect 💜
3 2516 October, 2019
The one where my Shaun Proulx Show guest, producer and myself emerge deeply sophonsified.
11 2316 October, 2019
Red carpet Peach Party. Thank you David & Glenn for being such creative and benevolent forces of nature. #cbcsupportfund 💜 Image: Franklin Lau
6 2815 October, 2019
WHO is that FREAK hands almost touching ceiling jumping up and down to Simone Denny at the recent Dixon Brothers’ Peach Party. Someone needs to calm her DOWN 💜 Image: Franklin Lau
1 1815 October, 2019
Manifestation 101 - Stay general. Not: “I’m gonna manifest a cerise 2020 Mustang Convertible” - more like: “I like the idea of financial freedom. I like the idea of ease and flow. I like thinking even about what I’ll do with it. I see others manifesting and that is my guarantee I can too. I like even the way I feel right now and I realize the first thing to manifestation is realizing that all manifestation is a feeling before it is a thing. So now that I raised the vibe of how I feel, I’m going to relax my focus now and keep enjoying the day and come back and do this little rampage Proulx taught me (god he’s good) and just do that because I really like the feeling of feeling fucking good.” Do that. The specifics of what you desire in your life are well known. Your only job is to become emotionally “matchy” to it. To feel as good as the person who has the car you want would feel. Consistently. Then the floodgates open. The cool ass shit is unleashed. Now there’s a visual. You’re welcome. #ThoughtRevolution
5 2015 October, 2019
Good morning snuggle bunnies. Let’s go do this short week like rabbits. 💜
2 1615 October, 2019
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As we declutter and let go of stuff, busyness, mind spinning and heartache, things may feel empty at first. And empty can hurt. So we fill the spaces to relieve the pain. Then we start all over again.
When you move into a new home or if you recently decluttered your home, don’t rush out and buy all the things each room is supposed to have. Live in the space and then decide what you want or need. It’s up to you, and it’s much less than anyone will have you believe. Stop filling all the spaces with the right stuff.
After a break-up or break-down, be willing to feel the emptiness and wait for the lessons. Stop filling all the spaces with busyness, shopping, food, booze or other numbing devices. They won’t prevent the pain, only delay it.
When you declutter your closet, empty hangers are not an invitation to shop. Dress with less and decide what “enough” means to you. Stop filling all the spaces with clothing that doesn’t fit your body or your lifestyle.
If there is extra time while you are waiting in line, sitting in traffic or simply settling in after a long day, take a few deep breaths and reflect. Stop filling all the spaces with digital distractions and mindless scrolling.
When an appointment cancels, or something falls off your to-do list, don’t replace it. Embrace the margin. Stop filling all the spaces with more to do. Less do. More be.
Resist. Wait. Breathe.
Stop filling all the spaces.
Instead, let the extra spaces in your home and on your calendar and in your mind or heart be empty for awhile. The emptiness may be uncomfortable at first, but that’s where the answers lie. And when it’s time, you’ll have room for what you really want.
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another day, another city, another speech
Dienstag in Warnemünde, gestern in Frankfurt, heute in Stuttgart.
Ich genieße es, dass ich auf Bühnen meine Geschichte erzählen kann.
Was ich dann von Euch zurück bekomme, ist für mich ein totales Privileg.
Ihr erzählt mir Eure Geschichten und wie Ihr das Leben meistert.
Manchmal kann das Leben hart zu schlagen, doch es liegt an Uns, wie wir mit solchen Situationen umgehen. ————————————————————————- @premium_speakers#momentesammlet #keynotespeaker#rednerin#queenbee#staystrongkristna | Anzeige ————————————————————————-
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My mentors are collectively worth $10B+ and are actually happy & fulfilled in their lives. I came from having nobody in my network.... Here's how you can get anybody to be your mentor!
1. Don't ask "can you be my mentor?" 2. Look at what they've got going in their life and figure out where they could use some help (Do Not Ask) just do it and send it to them. 3. Ask specific questions via message / email first. 4. Act on the advice they give you and show them.
5. Be patient with the timing of their response.
6. Treat them like a human. Imagine how many messages and requests they receive everyday of people usually wanting transactional relationships.
7. One of my billionaire mentors once told me "you are just like the younger version of me and remind me of that fire!" What's 8? 👇
You hold on with your time, money, attention and emotion. When you let go, you free up those resources for something else. Something more meaningful and relevant to where you are right now. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
For a long time, I'd hold on thinking, "it's not hurting anything" and when I realized it wasn't helping anything either, I let go. It has to help, or add value, or make me smile ... or it's gone.
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Avoid the herd mentality. Take action- no matter how small.
What you think you’re angry about is likely not the real issue. Slow down, and think.
We overdo, over-drink, over-eat, over-busy our lives but numbing our way through isn't working. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
What if instead, we just felt the feelings? Not fixed them, or ignored them or numbed them. Just felt them and gave them time to teach us what we need to learn? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It might not work every time, but if we can allow the feeling to come before the doing, maybe we won’t have to do so much.
77 3,1109 October, 2019
So glad I brought my own videographer (Travis Tindell) to capture this AMAZING event 🤗 so I can share it with ALL OF YOU and hopefully inspire you to dream BIGGER 🙌🏼 #hellofears#keynotespeaker#motivation
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Right here. Right now.
The only thing not in our control is the shit life throws on us! The rest is our own doing, our own responsibility.
So let’s stop thinking about the problem, and start working on the solution. That’s what we control, what we drive.