Many will say that they love and care for you. Don't believe it till you see evidence. If they don't reciprocate or are there for you in crisis, they may think you are a good person but love you, not necessarily. Make sure you're not lying to others. A lot of people said they loved me but that turned out to either not be or not that much. People say things because it sounds good but don't be tricked. Some people just want your stuff and your attention. Or they don't want others to benefit from your presence. It's selfish . Once people show you that you're only an option don't remain a multiple choice question. You were born to be an answer to a problem in the world. God loves you. He isn't lying about it. Humans, well you should be celebrated never tolerated. When people think they are too good for you or they think someone else is better to be around they will be around the person they want to be. If you have to beg for a conversation talk to someone else. Remember no matter how fascinated they appear in the moment. It takes integrity to maintain it. Some people are good in the heats of this part of your life. When the final race comes that truly counts they won't be there to run with you. But work on your vision your fulfillment is in that. The liars are only a distraction..Many are going to be shocked by what I do because my standards protect me so I can get to my destiny. I want my destiny more than anyone else. Your purpose never betrays you. #Gustalks#lifecoaching#leadershipdevelopment@simonandschuster@ivpress
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I bloody love our country!
I’ve adored my week on the Goldie and can see myself doing this a lot more in the future, not exactly on my doorstep but a short light and Voila….this!
I fly out and head back home to Melbourne in a few hours and while I’ll be very happy to be back home with my guy I’m going to miss hanging out with some of my besties and being able to walk for hours without every running out of beach!
They say contrast makes life richer and I’m running with that as I head back home to
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החיים שלך מחכים מחוץ לאיזור הנוחות שלך. איזור הנוחות זה מצב או מערכת יחסים, או עבודה - שיש בהם בטחון ונוחות, אבל את לא מאושרת . ובכל אופן את מעדיפה את המקום הזה על פני התמודדות עם החיים וצמיחה. כי זה לא נוח ולפעמים כואב. אבל אם את רוצה להיות מאושרת - עליך לצאת מאיזור הנוחות ולפגוש את החיים שמחכים לך.
This picture makes me giggle.
It reminds me of being a kid. Something I feel like I’m relearning to be.
I’m really happy in life right now. But child me never thought she would be happy unless she could figure out how to be perfect.
She didn’t know she was enough just the way she was.
She didn’t know she could be herself.
She didn’t know that God knew she loved Him, that she didn’t have to prove it.
She didn’t know she wasn’t a bad person for getting bored during church or scripture study.
She didn’t know she was more than accomplishments.
She didn’t know that it wasn’t God who wasn’t forgiving her- it was herself.
She didn’t know that it was okay to trust people.
She didn’t know it was okay to be angry or sad.
She didn’t know that being a girl wasn’t inferior.
She didn’t know she didn’t have to prove anything.
She didn’t know that she didn’t have to be the grown up.
She didn’t know she was enough.
So now I’m teaching her. Teaching me.
I send her a hug and gently say “Go make a mess of your room, roll your eyes in boredom during scripture study, eat more candy, say a potty word, run from the boys who have cooties, rub some dirt in your hair and be a kid. You are enough how you are. Tia is the best person for you to be.”
What do you need to reteach your past/child self? And can you learn it now?
The Shadow – first coined by Carl Jung – are the parts of ourselves that we don’t consciously identify with. They are the parts of ourselves that we have either rejected or not recognized altogether because they are unacceptable or shameful or not allowed. We decided that these parts were unsavory and unwanted at a very young age.
In other words, your Shadow contains natural, normal and vital parts of yourself that you decided at a very young age you would NEVER be.
But here’s the thing about the Shadow – it can’t stay hidden under the rug forever. It’s a natural part of you, it wants to be expressed.
So, it is essential to be able to recognize your Shadow and work with it. Not only so that you can avoid hurting others, hurting yourself, or being triggered by others, but also because your Shadow holds incredible pieces of gold and beauty and potential that you miss out on when you push those energies into Shadow.
When you do the inner work that’s needed to own your Shadow, then you get to own, accept, embrace, honor and love ALL of yourself….not just certain pretty parts….but ALL of you. Working with your Shadow is one of the most effective ways to lovingly bring your true self out of the shadow and into the light. It allows you to change behaviors and patterns that don’t serve, and it allows you to honor and claim all of who you are.
To work with me and read more about it go to the article link in bio👆🏻
If you’re like many people leaving an unhappy marriage, I believe that you’re on a quest, looking for love.
So naturally, dating after divorce features prominently in the hearts and minds of those separating.
Love is our calling card and those in the midst of breakups are in desperate need of love.
Often times, dating means finding new sex, comfort, maybe even evidence that you’re just fine and ready for the rest of what life has to offer.
I believe in you!
🎁 Quel plus beau cadeau en ce jour de fête de la sortie de mon premier livre, que d’accompagner ma toute première coachée Québécoise ?... Rien ! 🙏 .
. ♥️ Merci à la Vie. Merci à ses synchronicités. Merci à ses opportunités. Merci à l’Univers de me permettre de savourer un bon thé vert en attendant de découvrir ma cliente, son histoire, son cadre de référence, ses besoins, ses envies... Quel putain de beau métier que celui de coach ! .
What does it mean to be “Professional”? While having lunch with some of the other employees during my trip, I realized that they were caught off guard by how direct I come off however very appreciative of my honesty. In that moment, I had a lot of thoughts go through my head like Quel now you know everybody can’t handle how upfront you can be at times. Then I had another thought to myself, I do well being me.
I don’t know how to be anybody else but myself. I have earned the respect that I have today by being authentic, transparent, direct, consistent and fair. That is my definition of being Professional. Let people learn to fall in love with the real you. It feels good to not try and just BE.
Don’t accept rules and meanings from the outside world. Learn to fall in love with yourself and others will follow!
2 121 hour ago
I KNOW I'm not the only one 😂😂😂😂 Spending your time is like swiping a credit card with a limit over and over without knowing what your limit is - One day you'll OVERDRAFT.
What I mean that our Earthly life is LIMITED but yet we don't know how much TIME we really have.
A lot of men have grown up believing that the only acceptable negative emotion they are allowed to have is anger. Thus, when men feel hurt, sad, scared, or anything else related to vulnerability, it can often show up as anger and aggression. This, in addition to a culture telling men they need to “man up” instead of seek help or support, has resulted in modern day statistics showing that the suicide rate for men is THREE TIMES that of women. Men, you are ALLOWED to have human emotions. You are ALLOWED to express those human emotions. You DESERVE the help and support that every human being needs.
Activate the frequency of faith within your body, mind + spirit. 🧘🏾♀️✨
1 171 hour ago
#weekend vibes! Be confident, you got this! No matter what the circumstances, straighten your crown.... deal with the issue because no one else can deal with it better than YOU! #Brewathought#lifecoaching
0 31 hour ago
🙆♀️ Cat’s Story 😴
Yoga was my way out of burn out, a way for me to reconnect with myself and let go of the tension and anxiety that I’d been holding in my life. I soon decided to take it full time and become a yoga teacher.
The first time I felt that I was living my purpose was in a yoga studio.
There was this one in a million yoga class that I taught where something just felt different. It was so intangible, but I knew I was in this flow state. After class, everyone was telling me that the class was amazing, that they felt better than they’d ever felt leaving a class.
Looking back it was almost like we’d transcended space and time.
Then, I did attribute it to teaching yoga and wanting to recreate that feeling for everyone, all the time. It was the first time that I had experienced purpose, that feeling of “I am where I need to be right now. This is it.”
As you might expect, I couldn’t just leave my yoga practice as it was.
I wanted to take it to the next level, to be the best. I wanted to climb the “corporate ladder” of yoga all the way to the top.
In doing that, I quickly turned yoga into another situation where I was just doing the mostest and was not listening to my true self.
I felt really burnt out *again*.
How could this happen? This is exactly what I wanted. I wanted to do something fun. I wanted to relax. I didn’t want to work this hard, and yet here I am again doing the same exact thing but in a different shell.
That realization was so disappointing.
Here I was, thinking that I’d grown so much, learned so much since I’d made the decision to pursue this path, and I was actually just the same.
I was the same person, just in yoga pants.
A lot of men have grown up believing that the only acceptable negative emotion they are allowed to have is anger. Thus, when men feel hurt, sad, scared, or anything else related to vulnerability, it can often show up as anger and aggression. This, in addition to a culture telling men they need to “man up” instead of seek help or support, has resulted in modern day statistics showing that the suicide rate for men is THREE TIMES that of women. Men, you are ALLOWED to have human emotions. You are ALLOWED to express those human emotions. You DESERVE the help and support that every human being needs. .
Make a #cosy spot for something important to you. Maybe that's #meditation#reading#Visualizing#yoga or something else. Having one dedicated spot for that helps your brain shift, and is also a reminder for things you want to do daily/or often. In sight, in mind! 😀I think this couldn't be a cozier spot for taking #lifecoaching calls #nyclifecoach
Autumn is the season of harvest and a time of change. The days get shorter and the leaves fall from the trees.
It’s a good time to reflect and think about anything you may want to change as well. You could ask yourself, “Is there anything in my life that isn’t working?” Or, “What sparks joy that I can do a little bit more of in the coming months?”
DIE WEGE (22): ENTSCHEIDUNG, REISE
Du bist viel unterwegs, draußen sein. Du suchst die Kommunikation um eine für dich adäquate Entscheidung treffen zu können.
DIE FISCHE (34): FINANZEN, GELD, WOHLSTAND
Wenn du heute unterwegs bist z.b. am feiern oder zu einer Veranstaltung gehst, gibst du Geld aus. Oder erwartest du Geld? Es könnte sich dann zum eine größere Summe handeln.
DER HERR (28): EHEMANN, PARTNER
Eine interessante Begegnung besteht dir möglicherweise bevor, geschäftlich oder privat. Du siehst einen Gesamtsieg vor Augen & gibst dich kämpferisch.
DIE EULEN (12): KOMMUNIKATION, NERVOSITÄT, ANRUF, SCHWIERIGKEITEN VON KURZER DAUER
Du lernst neue Leute kennen & Impulse werden gesetzt bzw. kommen auf dich zu. Du bist bereit für NEUES.
DIE DAME (29): DIE WEIBLICHE HAUPTPERSON 👸🏼
Du darfst dich auf eine bedeutsame Begegnung freuen, meist eine Frau, mit der es einen interessanten Austausch gibt.
Fazit: 1. Es ist deine Entscheidung, wenn du mehr Erfolg & Wohlstand möchtest. Die Kommunikation verläuft im Moment mit deinem Partner eher schwierig.
2. Vielleicht zeigt dir eine neue Person, mir der du dich angeregt unterhältst, neue Wege auf, die dir helfen können in einer wichtigen Entscheidung.
🍃Para disfrutar de la vida hay que...
- Dejar de cumplir con las espectativas de los demás y empezar a cumplir nuestros sueños.
- Dejar de preocuparse por el futuro, que es incierto, y ocuparse de lo que queremos hoy.
- Dejar las quejas, hacernos las víctimas de la vida y empezar a construir la vida que deseamos y ser protagonistas de ella.
- Dejar que los miedos sólo nos acompañen pero que nunca nos detengan.
- Dejar que la vida nos sorprenda.
- No esperar nada para que llegue todo.
- Agradecer cada día que nos regala Dios y la vida.
- No volver a cometer los mismos errores.
- Dejar de escuchar el que dirán la gente siempre, siempre, va hablar. Tú continúa.
- Lo que no se sana se repite, trabaja en ello.
Y ámate, ámate mucho, con tus defectos y virtudes, si hay algo que no te gusta cambialo, pero hazlo por ti. Recuerda que siempre se trata de ti.
Cosas que fui aprendiendo con el tiempo y que ahora comparto contigo para que el camino se te haga muchísimo más fácil. 💗
1 941 hour ago
You guys! I have done so much work to help coach women In faith crisis as a result of family leaving the church. .
I have spent 12 years navigating my own faith/faith crisis and figuring out who I want to be and what I want to believe around faith ,my relationship with God, religion, and my own family that have left the church. .
I am able to be real with my doubts and questions, and not be afraid of them. I can talk about them in a real way. .
I am able to be confident in what I am able to give at church, without feeling guilt. I am able to say NO without guilt. .
I am confident in my belief in God, and why I am in this church. It has taken so much time for me to figure it out. Ask my husband. I’ve been obsessed for years. .
I am totally OK with being confident with parts of the gospel and okay with being unsure about other parts.
I am 100% confident in knowing how to receive answers and 100% confident that my Heavenly Father is hearing me and will answer me .
I can listen to opposing beliefs with a totally different mindset than I used to have. .
My coaching the past year has up-leveled my ability. I know what you gotta do to get in a different place, but I can’t do it for you. You have to put in the work. And it takes work. I can guide you, Direct you ,and Help you figure it out for yourself. I bring an experience unlike any other ,connecting coaching into the gospel ,to give you a new experience as a member of the church. ❤️❤️
2 101 hour ago
In attendance for @footprintsofangels inaugural “Blinging for Babies” Gala tonight who’s mission is to raise awareness and scholarship funds for those suffering from infertility.
For more info about this AMAZING organization see the link below: https://www.footprintsofangels.org
Day 9 of the 21 days home Detox Challenge
Breaking the Clutter-Depression-Anxiety Cycle. Category is clothes.
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Ready for an in-person coaching session. Always have to have those tissues handy..never know what gets uncovered 💜 The Lord grant me the love & wisdom to walk this journey through my clients' lives. It is a privilege♦
When we embrace life leaving the bullcrap behind, we'll finally come to appreciate our life, finding peace. We'll finally use what we have working upon ourselves for our own hope of finding purpose, a meaning to it all. We'll be working towards a better future and connecting that relationship with ourselves, internally, externally and spiritually. You only have one life, use it, take ahold of it and live it to the best of your ability where your journey is of your own making guiding where you need to be with hope, wisdom and focus.
☝ ❤️ ✊ 👊 💪 -UDR
Vitiligo, it has made us part tanned, part white and fully unique opening up the world to us, Alham'Du'lillah.
In a world of "Visual Fascism", We rise like cream with chocolate to the top creating the perfect sitting above the water, why? Because we couldn't give a damn about the mind manipulation of social perversions, trying to condition us that we are not good enough unless we conform to the "modern" filtertastic unrealistic standard that plagues us regarding our appearance, our outer layer.
So bulld upto your nature, upon your natural essences that constructs a better you, for you and not what the mind f*ers tell you to.
Deep in thought as I ponder: Living the life that I had, I gained nothing externally but gained an empire from within. My heart and mind to what THEE ONE above has blessed me with, outweighs anything this world has to offer. I had money, woman, thought I'd felt love, travelled to globe, experienced many things and people through life only to realise nothing exertnal would ever fill that void if the aim of the self was to chase that next fix hoping to find purpose because the distraction was easier to face than the reality of my own emptiness. Going through loss, was reconfirmation that if my being was not right from within, nothing would ever change because of the self pitty caused me to dwell through my own misery.
But who can say, if I have everything or nothing at all, I have my faith that will always keep me strong, making me wiser In-Shaa-Allah until my time has come?
That is why we should appreciate all that we have, even from the tiniest thing that we have been blessed with. Family, our loved ones, clean clothes, running water, heating, food on the table and even being able to make tea and coffee within worry, being able to go outside without the fear of bombs dropping on us. Sit down and really think about how you lived your life and if you have truly appreciated. Did you stand up for yourself? Protect yourself? Learn? Engage in learning and discussions that blew your mind wide-open? Or have you remained the same?
In the West, divorce, stress, depression and suicide is on the rise yet, so many have what we need externally to live without fear or loss. So it makes one wonder to what purpose are we living for and who do we actually live our lives for?
Final throught, if all was stripped away, how would you live your life? What would be your responsibility, your purpose? Would you ever take for granted life skills and the elements of life again?
🍃Guarda está guía como oro, y sácala cuando vengan los días que estás bajoneada.
Son 20 cosas para aplicar en tu vida, @lavidade_lola Capa!!
Que esta guía siempre te recuerde que eres una mujer fuerte, que merece un amor sano, que merece su propio amor, brillar, cumplir cada uno de sus sueños, rodearse de personas que te permitan crecer y que puedan aportar de manera positiva a tu vida.
Tu eres la única creadora de tu destino, no lo malgastes sufriendo, otorgando tu preciada energía a quién no la merece.
Recuerda que nadie merece tus lágrimas y quien las merezca sólo te hará llorar de felicidad.
Me encantaron cada uno de los consejos. A ti ¿Cuál te ayuda más en estos momentos? ¿A quién crees que podría ayudar esta guía de oro para mujeres valientes y poderosas como nosotras?
Porque recuerda que lo eres, son 11. 5k mujeres que estamos aquí para aprender, crecer, y cambiar nuestro destino, juntas. Aún crees que estás sola? 👭👭👭👭
Y aprovecho para agradecer a cada una de ustedes que se toma el tiempo de día a día leerme, millones de gracias por estar aquí y formar parte de mis días. 💗
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Pense sobre os seus maiores sonhos e idealizações. Agora reflita sobre os seus medos, crenças e limitações e nos responda: eles tem te atrapalhado e atrasado a realizar aquilo o que você deseja? Se a resposta foi sim, nosso texto de hoje é para você. 👇
Seja na área pessoal ou profissional, todo ser humano possui sonhos e expectativas, mas, quantas delas de fato os realizam? Isso acontece pois, em vários momentos, elas são tomadas por medos, crenças e inseguranças e permitem que isso seja maior do que seus sonhos. 😔
“Eu não tenho capacidade para conseguir a promoção no emprego”, “Eu nunca vou conseguir juntar dinheiro para fazer a minha viagem dos sonho”, quando a pessoa percebe, ela viveu uma vida inteira baseada em medos e inseguranças e foi incapaz de alcançar seus maiores desejos. ❗
Se você se viu nesta situação, separamos 3 dicas para você se livrar agora mesmo das suas crenças limitantes e viver o extraordinário:
1⃣ Desenvolva o seu autoconhecimento, conheça as suas habilidades e competências, as potencialize e trabalhe seus pontos de melhoria.
2⃣ Faça tarefas que te mantenha motivado e focado naquilo que você deseja.
3⃣ Estabeleça metas alcançáveis que te ajudem a atingir seus sonhos. ⠀⠀⠀⠀
Se livre do peso do medo e das crenças limitantes, compreenda todo o potencial de mudança e ação que você possui, vença seus obstáculos e vá de encontro aos seus sonhos, ao que faz seu coração pulsar. 💙
Marque aqui alguém que precisa ler essa mensagem hoje!