I first became familiar with life coaching when a friend told me about Jody Moore. I listened to her podcasts frequently and the first thing she taught me that made such an impact on my life and my parenting was “do not rob your children of their classes”
She talked about the reason we don’t want our children to make choices against our wishes was because WE don’t want to feel the pain that comes with that. Of course we don’t want them to choose things that could harm them or their lives, but ultimately WE didn’t want to feel the pain of their suffering. She explained that our children have a different journey than we do. They have different Temptations they have different goals and ultimately will have different experiences both good and bad. It is our job to teach them but to not enable them or take away their agency to choose. It is our job to be there for them when they make a choice with a negative consequence.
They Have different areas that they need to grow in and if we do not allow them to grow now when they are young they will have to take those “hard classes” or learn those tough lessons when they are older. We do not need to take on the pain of our children suffering through the hardships of life. This was such a freeing concept for me to hear as a parent who worries. “Don’t rob your children of their classes.” #parenting#lifecoach#thelifecoachlessons#lifelessons#lifequotes#learn#grow#bebetter#be
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'Balance, peace, and joy are the fruit of a successful life.' -Thomas Kinkade #fbf
Follow Becky as she tries many new things to find her AMAZING SUPERPOWERS!
A children's book to encourage a growth mindset of resilience, persistence, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-esteem. Best suited for children aged 5 - 11 years. "Hey There! What's Your Superpower?" is brilliantly authored by Jayneen Sanders, and beautifully illustrated by Sarah Jennings.
I LOVE iced coffee. My husband makes fun of the fact that I refuse to eat ice cream in the dead of winter, but I have to have my daily iced coffee. I take mine black usually or with a splash of milk. Which is why I was shocked when I ordered my first iced coffee in Australia.
Sat down at a beach side cafe and ordered my go-to drink without thinking. Got a big surprise when a big cup with cold coffee, vanilla ice cream, and whipped topping came out 😆 Lesson learned so I thought I'd pass it on ☕
أخيراً عرفت تماماً لمن أشتاق ،اشتقت لشخصٍ أبحث عنه ولم أجده حتى الآن أبحث عن من يحمل روحي الصغيرة التي التزمتْ البراءة في صغرها أبحث عن نفسي القديمة بشخصٍ آخر أبحث عن الذي يستطيع فهم كلماتي المبعثرة أبحث عن الشخص الذي باستطاعته أن يكون سندي لا أبحث عن الكمال لا عن المال ، البراءة التي افتقدتها منذ بدأتُ أترعرع بعالمٍ مليئٍ بالظلم والأسى عالمنا لا يعرف الرحمة لذا منذ فقدتُّ روحي بدأت بالبحث عنها بشخصٍ ما وكأنها مجهول لكنني لم أجدها والسبب نسياني أن جميع من هم حولي فقدوا تلك الروح البريئة التي شرعتُ البحث عنها عندما افتقدتها بسببهم & #lifelessons#_life_lessons_كتابتي#hatelife #darcklife#black #اكسبلور#اكسبلورر#_اكسبلور
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S/O to SGT Fitzgerald 👣👣 go and follow! 👣👣
Becoming the best version of ourselves is something we must step into, are you ready for the change?? Don’t let life pass you by...get yours!! HMU and see what the Army is all about!!
#fridayfaillesson time! Let’s be honest - I SUCK at celebrating myself and accepting compliments. I absolutely love supporting those around me but when it comes to recognizing my own goodness? Well let’s just call that a #fail ... so let me introduce my #feelgood basket. In this basket I am going to collect notes on good things that have happened during my day and complements I have received. I am going to keep evaluations I have received and nice emails. This basket is going to be my way of reminding myself that I am #talented#hardworking and #good - this is my way of combatting constant self criticism and regular feelings of #impostor syndrome. #phd#phdlife#prof#learningspecialist#life#wellness#fridayvibes#lifelessons#growth
2 819 minutes ago
Your dream is possible. So keep on believing in yourself and find the right guidance.
Our past is just stories of how we think we remember things based on our limited human perceptions, clouded by a lifetime of emotions, and then used to create our future.
How can you change your story, to create an inspired future today?
A lot of times we feel “if we could just do this...(insert desired goal) we would feel this (insert incredible feeling) therefore we would be this (more worthy essentially)
Your self worth is a feeling. It’s the thoughts we have that determine our feelings and therefore when we think we are incredible we feel incredible. That option is yours now if you want it no matter who we are or the choices we make.
One of the first and most powerful lessons I learned was that I was in control and capable of feeling any emotion I wanted right NOW. I didn’t have to accomplish the laundry list of things my brain determined was success in order to feel successful. Being aware of this has lead me to be powerful in times I would usually feel weak.
When you are able to differentiate between them and concentrate on the ones who matter the most then your life will become a little less stressful, a little easier and little sweet.⠀
Have a great start to the weekend and a lovely sweet Friday evening.
1 25 hours ago
The more you can embrace discomfort and allow yourself to feel it,the more you will grow and change you for the better.
So here I am. Beginning my education for my lifelong dream of becoming a life coach. On this page I will share all that I’ve learned and continue to learn on this super exciting and nerve wracking journey. Thanks for tagging along🧡
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Do you agree? Sometimes, them leaving is a blessing in disguise. I'm thankful for my ex leaving me when he did. He made me better woman for MYSELF first and then for someone else. I've been blessed time and time again ever since.
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Only you can do the work you need to do.
Literally no one else can do YOUR work for you.
That can either be a defeating or empowering thought, depending hon ow you look at it.
For most of my life, I saw it as defeating.. "Can't someone else do it for me & I can just reap the benefits? Call me when the work is over." "The work is too hard, is it even worth it?" "But I don't know what the work even is -- how do I know?" "Give me the exact steps to get to the final product, please & thank you!"💁🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I'll tell you a few things I've learned in my (very short) time of putting in my MY work:
✨The lessons are always IN the work, not the final product.
✨You don't have to know every little step to get "over there," the work is taking it one step at a time.
✨It's not meant to be easy -- that's life.
✨It's important also to note when it is you're making it harder than it needs to be.
✨Putting in the work makes the end so much more worth it.
That's all. Happy Friday, folks!✨
22 1061 hour ago
Wanna know what I think is the hardest part of growth is?
That the people around you can’t accept your growth and you have to learn to let go of those relationships. IT’S PERFECTLY OKAY TO CHANGE - you should be changing, because change means you’re learning.
IT’S OKAY TO FORM A NEW OPINION ON SOMETHING, HAVE A NEW BELIEF or HAVE DIFFERENT INTERESTS.
Next time you feel you’ve outgrown a relationship, it will suck, you will be sad and miss them, but that’s OKAY. All it means is that you’re at different points in your journey - you can still have nothing but love from that person 💕✨
28 50326 February, 2020
I’m sure you probably have said some pretty stupid shit in your lifetime.
I’m sure you’ve done things you shouldn’t have.
I’m sure you’ve probably achieved success in some way or another.
I’m sure you failed quite a bit as well.
I’m sure you’ve met some questionable people in your life.
I’m sure you’ve met some life long friends.
Either way, every experience we are blessed to come in contact with is truly a blessing.
Take time to reflect. Take time to process. Take time to learn each lesson that comes with each experience...
Then continue to move forward! #levelupyourstandards#scaleyourexpertise - The Doc 👊
With the demands of responsibilities, I admit that I take my family for granted. It was a holiday last Tuesday and Ethan tells me “mom, stop using your phone” I’ve been so accessible for work and for others that I try to sneak out a quick reply in the email or viber but my kids see it. I asked myself... how come when I am in a meeting with people, I am so attentive, I give my undivided concentration but at home, I’m easily distracted. This week, we learn the character trait “benevolence” to give without expecting any reward and the opposite of it is “selfishness”. I think it’s a whole lot of the latter. So I think I need to start working on “treating others the way I want to be treated, to be patient and seek others good first before my own...” I have placed my kids on the backseat as I give time for the people I work with. the reward of benevolence? I know I can win the heart of my kids 💖 even that 30 min ride to school and giving my undivided concentration has been making a big difference. How about you? Is there something in your day that you need to improve on? #todaywiththelucas#lifelessons#parenting