Hello guys I'm back😄
I was away from ig for a while, because i wasn't enough motivated to post anything.
I couldn't express myself, kinda lost.
Let me explain...
I remember one of my trip.
I traveled to search my peace, to forget my struggles.
I found there someone who took care my soul, my well-being and put colours and emotions into my life again.
I thought that was miracle, because someone like this can exist ?
After months I realized that is not my soulmate but just a more lost person who took advantage of me,
stole my heart, energy, time.
Received all, gave nothing.
So I gave up on everyone again and trusted nobody but yourself.
Then I needed to learn and accept that those days and nights of feeling lonely and stressed are nothing but ways to push me into becoming a much better and loving girl.
What if the only reason we are afraid of bad things happening is because we aren't sure how we will treat ourselves when its all said and done? What if the fear actually has nothing to do with the outside circumstances at all? What if all we are afraid of is how we have been taught to treat ourselves when so-called adversity strikes? In other words, we were taught that if something bad happens to me, and I dont beat myself up over it, I will never change. Now,,, Doesn't that seem a little INSANE to you?
When adversity arises, who do you become? Do you take it as an opportunity to strengthen the relationship you have with yourself, or use it as another reason to withhold your own love from yourself, calling it responsibility..?
If, no matter what, you can be your own friend that UNCONDITIONALLY and lovingly directs yourself to a better feeling place, you will never be afraid of "bad" things happening. Once you develop the trust with yourself that you don't need to berate yourself in order for change to occur, everything becomes another opportunity to love yourself deeper than ever before. Every circumstance in life turns into flashcard that you always know how to solve. You become LITERALLY unshakable.
THAT IS THE POWER OF YOUR OWN LOVE
AND THIS is the heart of FEARLESSNESS
Okay... ich watschel wie ein Pinguin und ich wedel mit den Armen. Ich werde nie ein Foto von Heidi bekommen.. aber egal... 🥰 denn wenn dir die Mädels zuwinken und zurufen... Bussis werfen: dann fühlt man sich einfach geehrt. Und es fühlte sich an, als ob dich alle einmal umarmen.
Das ist aufregend und tat so gut. Und ein dicker Drücker von Shelli. 🥰
Ich wurde heute hundertfach gedrückt. 😊😃
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There's power in looking silly and not caring that you do.
throw back picture.. next month Hakeem Kash is gonna be 1! Since he has came into my life things have shifted dramatically. I can’t say I was prepared for the shifts but I made sure to adjust and adjust again. Motherhood: I thought I could do this but then again even if I can’t, I have to! #PowerOfLove
This could be you in the photo with the love of your life...and sooner than you think.⠀
If there’s a part of you that’s thinking “yeah right” and rolling your eyes right now…then that’s not you my dear that’s your fear talking.⠀
Our fears have this funny way of convincing us that what we want will never happen because ____________ <~insert your own fear-based reason here.⠀
But here’s the thing...fear is past pain being projected into the future.⠀
And although your fear can scream so damn loud you can’t hear anything else, especially with something as big as LOVE, true love.⠀
I’m here to tell you that fear is NEVER the truth.⠀
You’re assuming the exact same thing that happened “last time” or “every other time” you tried before, will happen again.⠀
And unfortunately you could be right...UNLESS you change what you’re thinking. And UNTIL you change how you feel.⠀
Because what you’re thinking and feeling CREATE & ATTRACT what you experience.⠀
If you want to stop letting fear dictate your love life, then you have to get REALLY good at catching yourself in those moments you feel fear creeping in.⠀
And do THIS instead:⠀
1. Admit it. Admit how you feel. Don’t criticize it, judge it or blame it. Just notice it.⠀
2. Ask: Am I willing to believe this (the fear) to be UNTRUE?⠀
3. Face. Everything. And. Rise. (<~acronym alert) Feel the fear and choose faith instead, because fear is simply teaching you where you don’t believe enough.⠀
Fear is not the enemy. It’s a catalyst for growth when you know how to face it.⠀
P.s. Fear also stands for: False. Evidence. Appearing. Real.⠀
It’s okay to feel fear darling, but it’s not okay to believe it to be true.⠀
That’s when you shoot yourself in the foot and commit yourself to staying stuck where you are.⠀
So tell me, are you ready to conquer the shit out of your fears?⠀
Because everything you’ve ever wanted is waiting for you just behind it.⠀
P.s. I help you conquer your deepest fears in Total Love Life Reset, and that’s just in the first 2 weeks. If you’re done with trying to figure out your love life by yourself, I’m here, let’s chat.⠀
Your love is the power.
One of my professors in college had once said that we learn more about love by giving love rather than receiving love. I still think it’s one of the most truest statements.
Not to say that we don’t learn about what love is by receiving love...of course we do. Also, receiving love is fun as hell right? We all love receiving love. My professor was just pointing out that in giving love, we can dive into deeper capacities with our experiences with love. What love is and what it can do.
Recently, in my own life experiences on this spinning planet I’ve been learning more about the concept of ‘tough love’. Giving/receiving it and what tough love is. Why tough love is necessary for growth, change, and maintenance of healthy relationships. When to give it and how to appropriately give it to the people we care about. Also, how to receive tough love from the people we care about. Now, I really wouldn’t want to label it as tough love though...to me it’s all love as long as it’s done with compassion, respect, etc.
I want to note that all I’ve said above is applicable in every single type of relationship. Romantic, family, friendships, even work relationships (in a professional way of course).
My thoughts on tough love was just a side thing I wanted to add based on what I’ve been experiencing a lot of lately. I want to highlight that the main thing I want you to take from this, is that giving love is powerful. It can move mountains.
Your love is the power. 💕
~Thanks for reading my random rant about love. I studied communication in college so I’m extremely passionate about understanding different types of relationships and flows of communication in them. I believe understanding how to communicate love is super important for us to gain knowledge about in our journey of becoming better communicators.~
If you have any questions or comments please feel free to comment below or dm me. :)
“Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.” - Aristotle
Your body is a holistic system, processing information in a unified way. The problem is that most of us haven’t been taught beyond the mind. But this is changing, and slowly but surely more and more heartists are rising up and sharing the wisdom of the heart, which has been forgotten.
We are remembering 💞....our most innate Truth.
Our Core Truth.
I could post a hundred pics of cool buildings and sites from Europe. I’m thankful for my travels. It’s the connections and people you meet and share your life with that make it special and unforgettable. This woman has filled my life with so much love. When you meet her, you see and feel her big warm kind heart. Beaten and sexually abused, (rape is NOT ok) as a child in Costa Rica ran away at 9, attempts of suicide at 12. The personal work this woman has done to be so kind generous and loving is inspiring. Now a mother of 3 and married. She says she has never experienced love and doesn’t deserve it. Well that’s changing because how could you not love this kind amazing woman?! There is a reason we met. Gratitude! #hope#love#kindness#beauty#gratitude#abuseisnotokay#abusesurvivor#domesticviolencesurvivor#poweroflove#lovewins