“A positive person programmes prosperous thinking into his or her own mind and a miserable human being instructs his mind to ‘make me unhappy, mediocre, boring and average’. Your mind is like fertile soil in a garden-it does not care what you plant 🌱-it with always nourish it.” #stay -awoke #awakening # nature #forest # waterfall #positivity#selflove 🏞
Skrotat hemma i 3 veckor... ❤
Jag mår mycket bättre.. Är mycket piggare.. Laddar batterierna sakta, men säkert. Får leva med viss trötthet, men det ska väl gå det med.
Duracellbatterierna har jag lagt på hyllan.. så länge 😉. Må bra och komma tillbaka till jobbet är prio just nu.. Resten är sekundärt! ❤❤❤ . #mittilivet#lizzie#mintakt#selflove#skallatkaklet#leva#utisolen 🌞🌸🙏
Es ist so traurig, dass man sich in dieser Welt immer & immer wieder rechtfertigen muss...
Das einfach nicht verstanden wird, dass Menschen, die weder den selben Weg gehen wie Du, noch das selbe Ziel haben oder noch nie in Deiner Situation steckten, nicht wirklich die richtigen Ratschläge oder Tipps geben können. .
Dass Du ständig in Erklärungsnot gelangst & Dir das Gefühl vermittelt wird, Dich für alles erklären zu müssen, was Du tust. Oder was Du nicht tust.
Warum können Menschen bestimmte Entscheidungen, die Du für Dich getroffen hast, nicht einfach akzeptieren?
Sie müssen sie ja nicht einmal für gut befinden, sondern die Situation, ohne sie zu bewerten, einfach nur annehmen.
Doch irgendwie scheinen wir auf diesem Planeten noch nicht dazu bereit zu sein, andere ihr Ding durchziehen zu lassen, ganz ohne Hintergrundinformationen zu erlangen. ——
Das macht Müde.
Das Kostet Soviel Kraft & Energie.
Today life feels self demanding; we try to figure out how to develop ourselves to the fullest, how to maximize our potential and exceed in them -this can leave us feeling inadequate. But what if, instead we would accept ourselves as we are, think kindly of ourselves and one another.
Let’s bring our minds back from all the lists we have built, concentrate on simple things and just breath in. We are good just like this. Have a great day💛 #selflove#lovingkindness
Une notion bien abstraite pour la plupart d’entre nous.
À quoi le reconnaît-on ? Comment le créer ? Doit-on le trouver à travers l’autre dans une relation ?
Et si tout dépendait de toi ? De tes schémas mentaux?
Et oui ! Le bonheur provient de ton attitude, de ton analyse. Tu n’es pas tes pensées mais tu peux les devenir si tu ne t’attelles pas à les maîtriser. Tu as le choix dans ta façon de réagir aux événements. D’autre part tu ne dois pas chercher le bonheur à travers l’autre dans ta relation, tu dois le créer en toi et le partager . Plus tu attendras de l’autre qu’il comble tes manques, qu’il subvienne à tes besoins matériels ou psychiques, plus tu te rendras vulnérable. Être solide c’est maîtriser sa capacité à provoquer le destin, à comprendre , à donner et à recevoir. Le bonheur profond et indépendant des circonstances extérieures se trouve en toi ! Alors bâti-le dans le présent , maintenant . ——————
A very abstract notion for most of us.
How do we recognize it? How to create it? Should we find it through the other in a relationship?
What if everything depended on you? Of your mental patterns?
Hell yes ! Happiness comes from your attitude, from your analysis. You are not your thoughts but you can become them if you do not strive to control them. You have a choice in how you react to events. On the other hand you must not seek happiness through the other in your relationship, you must create it in yourself and share it. The more you wait for the other to fill your gaps, to provide for your material or psychic needs, the more you will make yourself vulnerable. Being solid is to master one's ability to provoke destiny, to understand, to give and to receive. The deep and independent happiness of external circumstances is inside of you! So build it in the present, NOW.
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Last week I was looking fly and being sassy. This week I'm struggling to want to reply to people, and not appreciating myself.
I absolutely love my work.
I love drawing... Creating made up things and feeling like I can let all of my weirdness out into my work... Since making the big move I feel like I can express myself more and therefore grow as an artist. It's so refreshing to want to draw again... And this year, I do really want to push doing more of what I'm passionate about. I LOVE that you're all accepting how weird my ideas are!! Since I've moved I'm busier than I've ever been. I'm so grateful for you all for that... But my anxiety is through the roof! It's a big change going from reasonably busy with some free time to do designs, and bookings. To entirely booked!
I'm often hounded or spammed by people, sending question marks or just the same question an hour later... usually I'm not on my phone because I'm tattooing... so you're wasting your own time. I deal with all my bookings, deposits, designs myself. You shouldn't contact anyone else as they won't necessarily have the answer. Just be calm, relax.
But I tend I run into hiding and avoid social media when I get that kind of response from people... Meaning even those who message me and don't spam me have to wait too. People seem to think I don't have a life... Work hours don't exist. I'm sat replying to people at 6am, 7pm, 10pm and others at 2am when the notification wakes me up. If you don't get a reply, then more than likely I am busy...if you message me again and again, I'm likely to put you to the bottom of the pile. I will reply to you when I have a moment to.
Designs will be done a day or two before the appointment, then you can let me know what you like/hate. And I can make changes for the day of the appointment.
Usually I like to be a week ahead, but due to the adjustments of work, that's how it is right now.
I absolutely promise you'll get the best tattoo and we will make it perfect.
HeLLo gUys !!!! Hope yall doin well so todays post is about self love. Now always remember in life when people leave it drives us insane or if something we didnt want to happen , happened but honey its fine sometimes life messes up and all u need to do is to keep on going no ones gonna come and lift you up. some people will try to take u down or degrade you but u need to learn how to get up it sounds so easy saying but it isn’t everyone has a different story and sometimes the endings arent happi but when something ends another thing starts!! Just like that, the sun goes down it also comes up and u need to be like that if you fall 99 times then you should get up 100 times .were givin this life to live to explore and we should not waste it wondering what couldve been insteatd we should focus on the now because now or never 💞💞.
Last night I took the journey from Bangkok to Vientiane by bus and what a journey it was! We broke down and were 5 hours late. I got to the embassy with ten minutes to spare, in such a flap, then was told I didn’t have enough money for the visa anyway and would have to come back tomorrow. 🙈
I’ve been sitting here in paradise beating myself up all afternoon. Why didn’t I bring some extra ‘just in case’ money? I was so close to picking it up before I left. I was so busy beating myself up that I almost forgot to stop and listen to the watery sounds happening all around me in this Laotian slice of paradise. 🌞
Sula Mae you are a fricking blonde doofus sometimes but you are safe, you are loved, and you are enough just the way you are.
We are all enough, we are all made just perfectly ❤️ If you’re ever in Vientiane, check out The Jungle House. It is so sooooo beautiful here 😍
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I’ve always felt I’ll never be...
Or enough of anything at all.
Now I’m learning that
I am enough
If nothing else
Because of the love I can show and the way I can make others feel.
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~They say I'm a grown lady
I'd rather say I'm a full grown baby
I just blew out the candles on my birthday cake
Damn, I feel like a kid again
To tell the truth I've always felt like one
To tell the truth I'm the definition of an oxymoron
A little girl housed in the body of a full grown
A little girl caught up in a world of her own
A world that knows no evil; Just & Fair
A world with silver linings and only love in the air
A world with beds of roses & no thorns
A world of fairytale and unicorns
I'm a little girl oblivious to the hurt the world can cause
A little girl that can't seem to differentiate. A BLESSING AND A CURSE.
When I look in the mirror I see a little girl in a pink dress
A little girl that really needs to learn to not always say YES
I promise I'm innocent and really foolish in the same sense
I promise, I promise I'm a blossomed mess
I smile sheepishly to the least of things
A little girl completely blind to what evil brings
A little girl with elation that knows no bounds
A little girl with the euphoria that comes with playgrounds
A little girl running through the garden with bouncing curls
The girl that gets up chuckling even when she falls
A girl gullible to what life truly is
a girl still living in the land of her first kiss
And when this heaven turns to hell
Remember I'm still that little girl
I cry my loudest pitch
Even from the slightest pinch
Shattered like a chandelier when it hits the floor
Explode with the same effect as a C4
Hot tears down my cheeks and mucus down my nose
I cry and cry till my eyes close
I cry myself to sleep
And wake up with an innocent smile
Forgetting everything; for me it's once bitten, still never shy
Trusting all again
Forgetting all the pain
It's like I've got a goldfish brain
All my attempts to learn from the past in vain
I'm a fool for love
You cannot blame a little girl who doesn't know what's involved
I NEED the WOMAN in ME.
If she still exists
To lead me aright & spanked me if I resist
The woman with a beautiful smile and a warrior's heart
That holds me together when things fall apart
My knight, my shield, my everything
And then I know this little girl has EVERYTHING ~ Shadae
It's so important to fill our own cup before filling anyone else's.
Boundaries & self care are the two important pillars of an healthy. Boundaries around how much energy you give to nurture yourself & how much energy do you give to nurture those you love.
All you need is a balance between giving yourself & giving everyone else.
This is how I look without makeup, & with no bra my ninny’s sag down low
My hair ain’t never hung down to my shoulders
And it might not grow
Ya never know
But I’m cleva, when I bust a rhyme
I’m cleva always on ya mind
She’s cleva and I really want to grow
But why come you’re the last to know.
Alright, alrigh, alright
Said I’m alright with me ❤️
Said I’m alright with me❤️
Said I’m alright with me ❤️
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“If being alone has taught me anything, it has taught me how to be strong when needed, how to let go when there’s nothing left to hold on to, and how to value myself before giving my love to anyone else.” - via @rmdrk#riskhappy
just want you to know you are LOVED, you got the biggest heart 💖 and your intention are always pure. Mr Selfless, never stop being you cause you sir...are amazing..Love you Nappy, most happy GDAY #selflove