Happy Friday the 13th! We’re starting our day with a free giveaway. What is your worst hook up story? Tell us in the comment section! The person that gets the most “Likes” on all our social media platforms combined wins a Nora and Max 2. Contest closes Sunday at 12am EST
YEE HAW!!! We're doing our friends and family LAUNCH of Gather-us.com!!! We are dedicated to female pleasure and bringing orgasms to every women m! We're just your friendly, local, feminist sex toy store.
************************ Joining forces with Griessmuehle Wintermarkt and Fleischeslust Festival for a 2 day cultural, informative and sex positive celebration;
14-15 December 2019
International artists, LIVE BAND, GHETTO CATCH WRESTLING,
performances, Art exhibition, workshops from TANTRA to BDSM, sex positive talks & lecture, food corner, non stop screenings.
ALL GENRE FESTIVAL
Workshops are mixed in German and English
14:00 // DJ Andrew Claristidge Resident Dj at the NXM since 2018https://www.facebook.com/andrewclaristidgemusic/(Instagram)https://soundcloud.com/andrewclaristidge/(Instagram)https://www.instagram.com/andrewclaristidge/(Instagram)
15:00 // Emma Lou/ Lady Lou's Bedroom Burlesque
LADY LOU's BURLESQUE 1H WORKSHOP
18:00 // Catch Ghetto Wrestling Special Edition by Flavie Guerrand
WRESLING LIVE PERFORMANCE
19:00 // @Emmanuelle 5 Dj SET RETRO SEXO
19:30// LEA LE ROCk by Fleischeslust
20:30 // C.O.P Live @ Naughty Xmas Market 2019
LIVE POST PUNK RETRO GLAM BANG BAND
21:30 // Jan Dean Roestel
BDSM BEGINNER//HARD2SOFT https://www.facebook.com/roesteldean
Happy #AffirmationAdvent on the grid again day. Although it’s not really all that happy, actually. This week, I have been really poorly, my anxiety has been at an all time high and I am so flipping stressed about the upcoming Christmas period. For reasons out of my control, I should add. Owing to what I can only assume is a combination of the three, I’ve barely slept since last week and I am generally exhausted. It’s tough feeling so down when everyone else is seemingly feeling so warm, fuzzy and festive. But that’s cool. It’s OK if it’s actually really not the most wonderful time of the year. I’ve been asking for years, and Santa still hasn’t responded to my pleas for better mental health care and less sodding pressure at Christmas. Selfish bastard. But know you’re not alone. I, and what I’m willing to bet is thousands of others, are right there with you. We got this. And we are STRONG AS HELL for battling through at one of the hardest times of the year. 💪🏼 #WomanOnTop
KEY THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE ANAL PLAY ⬇️
💦 Lubrication: the anus is not self lubricated. Use lots of lubricant to avoid creating discomfort or aggravating the sensitive skin inside the anus.
💦 Communication: If you’re the “giver” of anal play, make sure you’re checking in with your partner(s). Ensure they are comfortable and still wantIng to participate. This could be something as simple as “how does this feel?” Or “are you still into this?” If you are the “reciever” of anal play, discuss do’s and don’ts. Communicate what you desire, what feels goods and what doesn’t. Discuss a safe word so your partner will know if the current activity isn’t working for you. If you’re by yourself. Keep checking in with yourself and ensure you’re not pushing yourself passed what feels right for you. Listen to your body and let your pleasure guide you.
💦 Relaxation: If your are the receiver, you need to ensure you are relaxed. The anus is a muscle, therefor, the more tense you are, the more the muscle will tighten and anal play could be more likely to be painful.
💦 Start small: using large sex toys or a penis in the anus to start can not only cause fear and anxiety, but also pain. Start small (either that a toy, a finger, etc) and work your way up as you’re ready. Also use code “SPEAKINGOFSEX” at @bellesaco to get a butt plug set of three (and other butt play stuff) for a discount. For more info on what anal toys look like, check my IGTV.
Now it’s your turn!! If you’ve participated in anal play, what tips do you have for us???? I’m so ready to learn from you, I love you, and you belong here.
As soon as I saw @brosandprose posting about this book, I knew that I had to check it out.
Gaslighting: The Narcissist’s favorite tool for manipulation was a quick, insightful read. I found myself nodding a firm “mhm” as I read over some of the 80 common phrases the gaslighter uses.
Overall, I think the book is a great overview and introduction for someone looking to learn more about gaslighting and how it affected them; however, I think there were points that could’ve used further explanation. I also would’ve loved more resources or footnotes to seek out once finishing the book (but maybe that’s just me🤷🏻♀️). #sexELDucation#SexELD .
[Image description: A yellow book with black text and hands is positioned atop gold sequin fabric.]
Last night was wild! Thank you so much to everyone who made it out to celebrate the launch of our 6th issue. We’re still in awe of @elinaskye_melb fire nipples and of the sight that was Charlotte Sway and Mistress Salacia hacksawing off the poor unicorns horn! After such a good party our heads are feeling a little like they’re locked in one of these cages by @thevaulthtx but of course it’s totally worth it. Thank you so much! Issue 06 will be available for sale online in print and digital form within the next hour and it will be at our stockists beginning next Monday.
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And that's IT!! We've finished Season One of Doing It 🎉🎉
Thank you for listening & chatting with me here on Instagram, it's been FUN - in the words of our last guest @rubyrare, there's been a lot of 'living, loving and fucking' 💦
I've already started recording for Season Two and there's so many cool things to come 👀 But, to tide you over, I'm releasing some minisodes!! There's one out next week so stay tuned 🎧