Hey loves. Today’s relationship tip comes from @lifewithlilie . Their secret to a lasting relationship is Learn your partner love language, It is important to take the time to get to know your partner and learn how to love them the way they want to be loved. Also having open communication is extremely important for us.
New blog post / / Is Your Preference Really Just Prejudice? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀To celebrate the week of love I knew I wanted to write about dating preferences in Christian spaces (mainly white evangelical). Growing up my dating preferences reflected the internal struggles I had with my self identity as a black woman. Whether you know it or not, there is reason behind your dating preference. Sometimes the people we choose to pursue have more to do with how we view ourselves. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I didn’t write this post to attack anyone, but to challenge the way you think. I needed someone to challenge me back then, so I hope this does the same for you. If you disagree or feel attacked, hit my DMs. Let’s talk. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Link in bio. Let me know what you think. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #christiandating#atlantablogger#prejudice#preference#blacklove#interracialdating#christianblogger#bwwm#wwbm